We have the tools and resources to help you start or
scale your business. Join our thriving community and
stay connected with us.
We have the tools and resources to
help you start or scale your business.
Join our thriving community and stay
connectedwith us.
Being an entrepreneur is hard, and having the proper resources can be frustrating. You do not have to go at it alone. We have courses and a community to help educate you (Real Life XP), a full CRM system to help you automate your processes (The Real Life Business Builder), and coaching to help you implement what you've learned.
Being an entrepreneur is hard, and having
the proper resources can be frustrating.
You do not have to go at it alone. We have courses and a community to help educate
you (Real Life XP), a full CRM system to help
you automate your processes (The Real
Life Business Builder), and coaching to help
you implement what you've learned.
We understand that minority entrepreneurs have different needs and we cater to those.
Real Life XP
Our flagship entrepreneur accelration course
covers the entreprenur mindset, developing
systems and processes for your business,
building credit and acquiring funding for your
business and much more.
Coaching and Consulting
The right guidance can help entrepreneurs
overcome obstacles or avoid them all together.
We offer one-on-one and group coaching
to guide entrepreneurs through the maze of
business building.
The Real Life Business Builder Community
Our free community for entrepreneurs offers
courses, eBooks, group coaching,
and other resources for the growth and
development of entrepreneurs.
The Real Life Business Builder
The Real Life Business Builder is a full CRM, marketing, and automation system that we help set up for our clients to ensure implementation. Our lowest plan is just $80 a month and includes a free website and basic automation set up.
Tax Preparation, Training,
and Software
Small businesses need tax preparers who
understand small businesses. We now offer tax preparation services, tax preparation training,
and tax software to ensure entrepreneurs are able to plan for taxes and receive maximum returns.
Business Credit and
Business Funding
Without capital, your business will not be able to grow. We help clients start from nothing and build business credit in less than 90 days. We also ensure that you fit the criteria to apply for different business funding options.
The Ultimate Business
Builder Blueprint
Let us help you create an irresistible offer,
a professional funnel to generate leads,
marketing and ads to increase your reach,
CRM software to manage leads, and coaching
to put it all together.
We understand that minority
entrepreneurs have different needs
and we cater to those.
Real Life XP
Our flagship entrepreneur accelration course covers the entreprenur mindset, developing systems and processes
for your business, building credit and acquiring funding for your business and much more.
Coaching and Consulting
The right guidance can help entrepreneurs
overcome obstacles or avoid them all together. We offer one-on-one and group coaching to guide entrepreneurs through the maze of business building.
The Real Life Business
Builder Community
Our free community for entrepreneurs offers courses, eBooks, group coaching,
and other resources for the growth and
development of entrepreneurs.
The Real Life Business Builder
The Real Life Business Builder is a full CRM, marketing, and automation system that we help set up for our clients to ensure implementation. Our lowest plan is just $80 a month and includes a free website and basic automation set up.
Tax Preparation, Training,
and Software
Small businesses need tax preparers who
understand small businesses. We now offer tax preparation services, tax preparation training,
and tax software to ensure entrepreneurs are able to plan for taxes and receive maximum returns.
Business Credit and
Business Funding
Without capital, your business will not be able to grow. We help clients start from nothing and build business credit in less than 90 days. We also ensure that you fit the criteria to apply for different business funding options.
The Ultimate Business
Builder Blueprint
Let us help you create an irresistible offer,
a professional funnel to generate leads,
marketing and ads to increase your reach,
CRM software to manage leads, and coaching
to put it all together.
50 Real Life Rules to Stay Ahead of the Game
50 Real Life Rules to Stay Ahead of the Game: The Ultimate Guide to Thriving in Life and Business
Success isn’t just about luck—it’s about mindset, strategy, and discipline. In a world filled with distractions, noise, and negativity, staying ahead of the game requires a mix of wisdom, self-awareness, and action. These 50 rules serve as a blueprint to help you navigate life, relationships, personal growth, and success on your own terms.
1. Privacy Is Your Superpower
What people don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your personal life private and avoid unnecessary drama. Protecting your peace is a game-changer.
2. Embrace Loneliness as Part of the Journey
Success often requires solitude. Learn to be comfortable with your own company—it’s in these moments that you truly grow.
3. Everything Is Temporary
Good or bad, nothing lasts forever. Stay humble in success and resilient in tough times.
4. Be Kind—It Costs Nothing
Everyone you meet is fighting battles you can’t see. A little kindness can go a long way.
5. Your Partner Reflects You—Choose Wisely
A relationship should elevate you, not drain you. Look for someone with values that align with yours.
6. Prioritize Your Mental Health Over Other People’s Feelings
You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of your mind first, even if it means disappointing others.
7. You Don’t Need More Time—You Need Fewer Distractions
Focus is your most valuable resource. Cut out time-wasting habits and people.
8. Protect Your Time Like It’s Gold
Not everyone deserves access to your energy. Be selective with who and what you invest in.
9. Surround Yourself with Those Who Value You
If you have to beg for respect and appreciation, you’re in the wrong circle.
10. Self-Love Is a Necessity, Not a Luxury
Treat yourself with the kindness and respect you give others. Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for everything else.
11. Treasure Those Who Lighten Your Load
True friends uplift you, not burden you. Hold onto those who bring positivity into your life.
12. Choose Your Circle Wisely
The right people will push you to be better. The wrong ones will hold you back.
13. Peace of Mind Is Priceless
No amount of money or success is worth losing your inner peace. Guard it at all costs.
14. Stop Chasing Love—It Will Find You
Focus on your goals and personal growth. The right person will come when the time is right.
15. Look for People Who Want to Grow with You
Find those who share your ambition and drive. Build each other up.
16. No Regrets, Only Lessons
Every setback is a setup for a comeback. Learn, adjust, and keep moving.
17. Pursue Someone Who Is Proud to Have You
You deserve to be with someone who values and appreciates you.
18. Never Surrender
Life will test you. The key is to keep going, no matter how hard it gets.
19. Recharge—Don’t Quit
Feeling drained? Step back, rest, and come back stronger.
20. Sometimes, You Need to Disappear to Level Up
Growth requires focus. Take time away to reset, strategize, and come back unstoppable.
21. Learn from Others’ Successes and Mistakes
Success leaves clues, and failures teach lessons. Pay attention.
22. Stop Expecting from Others—No One Owes You
Your happiness is your responsibility. Take control of your life.
23. Trust That Everything Will Fall into Place
Patience and persistence always pay off. Keep going.
24. Keep Grinding—Your Breakthrough Is Coming
Success is a slow process, but quitting won’t speed it up.
25. Mutual Effort Is Unmatched
In relationships, business, and life—reciprocity is key.
26. Stop Overthinking Situations Where You’re Not Valued
If you’re not appreciated, move on. No explanation needed.
27. If No One Helps, Do It Yourself
Complaining gets you nowhere. Take action and make things happen.
28. Obsess Over Your Growth
The best investment you’ll ever make is in yourself.
29. Heart-to-Hearts Should Never End in Conflict
If someone truly cares, they’ll communicate, not argue.
30. “I’ll Do It Tomorrow” Is Just Procrastination
Success comes from consistency, not excuses.
31. Always Strive to Improve
Complacency is the enemy of success. Keep evolving.
32. Sometimes, Waiting Is More Powerful Than Acting
Timing is everything. Don’t force what isn’t ready.
33. Not Everyone Will Understand Your Journey—And That’s Okay
You’re not here to be understood. You’re here to grow.
34. Heal So You Don’t Become Your Trauma
Don’t let past pain shape your future. Do the work to heal.
35. Keep Your Circle Small and Your Friends Smart
Quality over quantity—always.
36. Temporary People Should Be Left in the Past
If they weren’t meant to stay, don’t chase them.
37. People Will Come and Go—Be Okay with Standing Alone
Independence is a superpower. Cultivate it.
38. Take Time to Disappear When Necessary
Growth often happens in solitude.
39. Some Will Hate That They Can’t Control You
That’s their issue, not yours. Stay true to yourself.
40. Focus on Your Growth, Not Proving Yourself
You don’t need to convince anyone of your worth. Just be great.
41. Never Return to What Broke You
Old wounds don’t heal by reopening them. Move forward.
42. Be Intentional with Your Energy
Every action either builds or drains you. Choose wisely.
43. Don’t Waste Time Explaining Yourself to the Wrong People
Some people are committed to misunderstanding you—don’t entertain them.
44. Stay a Student of Life
The moment you think you know it all, you stop growing.
45. Success Isn’t Luck—It’s Discipline and Consistency
Show up every day, even when you don’t feel like it.
46. Live Below Your Means, but Above Your Standards
Financial discipline equals freedom.
47. If It Doesn’t Challenge You, It Won’t Change You
Growth is uncomfortable. Embrace it.
48. Don’t Set Yourself on Fire to Keep Others Warm
Your well-being comes first. Always.
49. Master Your Emotions—Don’t Let Them Control You
Emotional intelligence is a secret weapon.
50. Invest in Yourself Daily
Read, learn, evolve, and keep leveling up.
Final Thoughts
Success isn’t about shortcuts—it’s about consistent effort, self-discipline, and the willingness to learn. These 50 rules aren’t just suggestions; they’re a mindset shift. Apply them, and you’ll always stay ahead of the game.
Which rule resonated with you the most? Drop a comment below! 🚀
50 Real Life Rules to Stay Ahead of the Game
50 Real Life Rules to Stay Ahead of the Game: The Ultimate Guide to Thriving in Life and Business
Success isn’t just about luck—it’s about mindset, strategy, and discipline. In a world filled with distractions, noise, and negativity, staying ahead of the game requires a mix of wisdom, self-awareness, and action. These 50 rules serve as a blueprint to help you navigate life, relationships, personal growth, and success on your own terms.
1. Privacy Is Your Superpower
What people don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your personal life private and avoid unnecessary drama. Protecting your peace is a game-changer.
2. Embrace Loneliness as Part of the Journey
Success often requires solitude. Learn to be comfortable with your own company—it’s in these moments that you truly grow.
3. Everything Is Temporary
Good or bad, nothing lasts forever. Stay humble in success and resilient in tough times.
4. Be Kind—It Costs Nothing
Everyone you meet is fighting battles you can’t see. A little kindness can go a long way.
5. Your Partner Reflects You—Choose Wisely
A relationship should elevate you, not drain you. Look for someone with values that align with yours.
6. Prioritize Your Mental Health Over Other People’s Feelings
You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of your mind first, even if it means disappointing others.
7. You Don’t Need More Time—You Need Fewer Distractions
Focus is your most valuable resource. Cut out time-wasting habits and people.
8. Protect Your Time Like It’s Gold
Not everyone deserves access to your energy. Be selective with who and what you invest in.
9. Surround Yourself with Those Who Value You
If you have to beg for respect and appreciation, you’re in the wrong circle.
10. Self-Love Is a Necessity, Not a Luxury
Treat yourself with the kindness and respect you give others. Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for everything else.
11. Treasure Those Who Lighten Your Load
True friends uplift you, not burden you. Hold onto those who bring positivity into your life.
12. Choose Your Circle Wisely
The right people will push you to be better. The wrong ones will hold you back.
13. Peace of Mind Is Priceless
No amount of money or success is worth losing your inner peace. Guard it at all costs.
14. Stop Chasing Love—It Will Find You
Focus on your goals and personal growth. The right person will come when the time is right.
15. Look for People Who Want to Grow with You
Find those who share your ambition and drive. Build each other up.
16. No Regrets, Only Lessons
Every setback is a setup for a comeback. Learn, adjust, and keep moving.
17. Pursue Someone Who Is Proud to Have You
You deserve to be with someone who values and appreciates you.
18. Never Surrender
Life will test you. The key is to keep going, no matter how hard it gets.
19. Recharge—Don’t Quit
Feeling drained? Step back, rest, and come back stronger.
20. Sometimes, You Need to Disappear to Level Up
Growth requires focus. Take time away to reset, strategize, and come back unstoppable.
21. Learn from Others’ Successes and Mistakes
Success leaves clues, and failures teach lessons. Pay attention.
22. Stop Expecting from Others—No One Owes You
Your happiness is your responsibility. Take control of your life.
23. Trust That Everything Will Fall into Place
Patience and persistence always pay off. Keep going.
24. Keep Grinding—Your Breakthrough Is Coming
Success is a slow process, but quitting won’t speed it up.
25. Mutual Effort Is Unmatched
In relationships, business, and life—reciprocity is key.
26. Stop Overthinking Situations Where You’re Not Valued
If you’re not appreciated, move on. No explanation needed.
27. If No One Helps, Do It Yourself
Complaining gets you nowhere. Take action and make things happen.
28. Obsess Over Your Growth
The best investment you’ll ever make is in yourself.
29. Heart-to-Hearts Should Never End in Conflict
If someone truly cares, they’ll communicate, not argue.
30. “I’ll Do It Tomorrow” Is Just Procrastination
Success comes from consistency, not excuses.
31. Always Strive to Improve
Complacency is the enemy of success. Keep evolving.
32. Sometimes, Waiting Is More Powerful Than Acting
Timing is everything. Don’t force what isn’t ready.
33. Not Everyone Will Understand Your Journey—And That’s Okay
You’re not here to be understood. You’re here to grow.
34. Heal So You Don’t Become Your Trauma
Don’t let past pain shape your future. Do the work to heal.
35. Keep Your Circle Small and Your Friends Smart
Quality over quantity—always.
36. Temporary People Should Be Left in the Past
If they weren’t meant to stay, don’t chase them.
37. People Will Come and Go—Be Okay with Standing Alone
Independence is a superpower. Cultivate it.
38. Take Time to Disappear When Necessary
Growth often happens in solitude.
39. Some Will Hate That They Can’t Control You
That’s their issue, not yours. Stay true to yourself.
40. Focus on Your Growth, Not Proving Yourself
You don’t need to convince anyone of your worth. Just be great.
41. Never Return to What Broke You
Old wounds don’t heal by reopening them. Move forward.
42. Be Intentional with Your Energy
Every action either builds or drains you. Choose wisely.
43. Don’t Waste Time Explaining Yourself to the Wrong People
Some people are committed to misunderstanding you—don’t entertain them.
44. Stay a Student of Life
The moment you think you know it all, you stop growing.
45. Success Isn’t Luck—It’s Discipline and Consistency
Show up every day, even when you don’t feel like it.
46. Live Below Your Means, but Above Your Standards
Financial discipline equals freedom.
47. If It Doesn’t Challenge You, It Won’t Change You
Growth is uncomfortable. Embrace it.
48. Don’t Set Yourself on Fire to Keep Others Warm
Your well-being comes first. Always.
49. Master Your Emotions—Don’t Let Them Control You
Emotional intelligence is a secret weapon.
50. Invest in Yourself Daily
Read, learn, evolve, and keep leveling up.
Final Thoughts
Success isn’t about shortcuts—it’s about consistent effort, self-discipline, and the willingness to learn. These 50 rules aren’t just suggestions; they’re a mindset shift. Apply them, and you’ll always stay ahead of the game.
Which rule resonated with you the most? Drop a comment below! 🚀
Frequently Asked Questions
Answers To Commonly Asked Questions
What are the benefits of business coaching?
Business coaches help entrepreneurs develop within their personal and business lives, so their businesses can thrive.
This includes identifying strengths and weaknesses, setting personal and professional goals and targets, and holding
the entrepreneur accountable to ensure those goals are reached.
What is Real Life XP?
Real Life XP is our free entrepreneur acceleration course, available in the Real Life Business Builders community. The
three modules in the course focuses first on the entrepreneur mindset, then business systems and processes, and finally building business credit and obtaining business financing.
This course is desgned to help entrepreneurs of all levels.
What is The Real Life Business Builder?
The Real Life Business Builder is an all-in-one CRM and marketing system that we help implement for entrepreneurs to build their contact list and nurture relationships with leads and customers. The system includes a website/funnel builder, email and SMS marketing and the option to brand the software as your own and resale it for profit. With a price as low as $80 per month, you have more than enough room to spend money on ads, which we will also run for you, if need be.
What else do you offer?
Real Life Business Solutions offers a wide range of products
and services, including eBooks, workbooks, courses, and other educational material as well as business plans, marketing plans, and specialized business solutions.
Is group coaching or 1-on-1 coaching available?
Yes, we offer different coaching programs to accommodate clients who enjoy building in a community and those who
are more comfortable in a more personal setting.
Is there some type of guarantee?
Yes. Real Life Business Solutions provides more than enough tools and resources to help entrepreneurs grow into who they need to become to be successful, but doing the work is still up to the client. While we can't guarantee specific results, we can guarantee that we will provide all of the things we promise or you will receive all of your money back.
Do I have to own a business to join the Real Life Business Builder Community?
No. The Real Life Business Builder Community is designed to help entrepreneurs and aspiring entrepreneurs. As long as you are interested in business and business conversations, the community will be of value to you.
Why are there no prices on the website?
Due to the unique nature of every person and every business, consulting prices cannot be quoted until we have our initial strategy session. We offer some programs, with prices, to offer
a starting point, but any personalization will require direct communication before a proposal is drawn up.
Frequently Asked Questions
Answers To Commonly Asked Questions
What are the benefits of business coaching?
Business coaches help entrepreneurs develop within their personal and business lives, so their businesses can thrive.
This includes identifying strengths and weaknesses, setting personal and professional goals and targets, and holding
the entrepreneur accountable to ensure those goals are reached.
What is Real Life XP?
Real Life XP is our free entrepreneur acceleration course, available in the Real Life Business Builders community. The
three modules in the course focuses first on the entrepreneur mindset, then business systems and processes, and finally building business credit and obtaining business financing.
This course is desgned to help entrepreneurs of all levels.
What is The Real Life Business Builder?
The Real Life Business Builder is an all-in-one CRM and marketing system that we help implement for entrepreneurs to build their contact list and nurture relationships with leads and customers. The system includes a website/funnel builder, email and SMS marketing and the option to brand the software as your own and resale it for profit. With a price as low as $80 per month, you have more than enough room to spend money on ads, which we will also run for you, if need be.
What else do you offer?
Real Life Business Solutions offers a wide range of products and services, including eBooks, workbooks, courses, and other educational material as well as business plans, marketing plans, and specialized business solutions.
Is group coaching or 1-on-1 coaching available?
Yes, we offer different coaching programs to accomodate coaches who enjoy building in a community and those who
are more comfortable in a more personal setting.
Is there some type of guarantee?
Yes. Real Life Business Solutions provides more than enough tools and resources to help entrepreneurs grow into who they need to become to be successful, but doing the work is still up to the client. While we can't guarantee specific results, we can guarantee that we will provide all of the things we promise or you will receive all of your money back.
Do I have to own a business to join the Real Life Business Builder Community?
No. The Real Life Business Builder Community is designed to help entrepreneurs and aspiring entrepreneurs. As long as you are interested in business and business conversations, the community will be of value to you.
Why are there no prices on the website?
Due to the unique nature of every person and
every business, consulting prices cannot be quoted
until we have our initial strategy session. We offer
some programs, with prices, to offer a starting
point, but any personalization will require direct communication before a proposal is drawn up.
Contact Us
(313) 883-9664
Real Life Business Solutions
2785 E Grand Blvd, Suite 381
Detroit, MI 48211
© 2024 Real Life Business Solutions, LLC - All Rights Reserved · Privacy policy
Contact Us
(313) 883-9664
Real Life Business Solutions 2785 E
Grand Blvd, Suite 381Detroit, MI 48211
© 2024 Real Life Business Solutions, LLC -
All Rights Reserved · Privacy policy